953 - Martin Madan to Judith Madan, 24 March 1726
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My Dearest Judy
In my last, I told you, I had been en=
=deavouring to separate an amorous Couple,
but alas. Love had too far engag’d Himself
on the fair Ones Side to permit my advice to
have the wish’t for success, I thought my Pupil
was fortified against all the Wiles of ye sex,
therefore permitted him to take, as I thought, a
last interview, but the
=futed all his Reasonings, by her too Powerful
Tears, Her declaration to him, of living for him
alone, yt being His, & his only, was wt she prefer’d
to all the world besides yt he was the object
of Her wishes & such kind of intoxicating language
sunk my young man into his former Lethargy,
& he mearly gave up His once redeem’d Liberty,
[f.87v]
and a Wedding we are soon to have
When I consider the Power of Women, it is
surprizing to me yt man sd imagine Himself
the first of the Creation, yt He is the superiours, yt
He is to be the absolute Governour of his Help
make Woman, How empty & Vain is this notion?
When a Tear from Her we Love can banish all
our boasted Reasoning, & all our manly arguments
flatter His wsh the confession of our superiority it
is but to entangle us the more in the net, to have
us the more in yr Power, it is like Sharpers
yt {^let} the young Cully win at first, To draw him
into a Greater sum.
Notwithstanding all I’ve said, I am pleas’d to
confess yt I am entirely yrs & yt you are my sovereign
mistress to be subject to ye charms & sensible of
ye perfections, I esteem a greater Happyness then
to be Conquerour of the World, & am in the utmost
delight when I can tell you that I am yrs entirely & for ever
M Madan
My Duty to my Mother
[f.88]
To Mrs Madan at the Honble
Spencer Cowpers at Hertingford
=bury Park near
Hertford
Hertfordshire
My Dearest Judy
In my last, I told you, I had been en=
=deavouring to separate an amorous Couple,
but alas. Love had too far engaged Himself
on the fair Ones Side to permit my advice to
have the wished for success, I thought my Pupil
was fortified against all the Wiles of ye sex,
therefore permitted him to take, as I thought, a
last interview, but the
=futed all his Reasonings, by her too Powerful
Tears, Her declaration to him, of living for him
alone, yt being His, & his only, was wt she preferred
to all the world besides yt he was the object
of Her wishes & such kind of intoxicating language
sunk my young man into his former Lethargy,
& he merely gave up His once redeemed Liberty,
[f.87v]
and a Wedding we are soon to have
When I consider the Power of Women, it is
surprizing to me yt man sd imagine Himself
the first of the Creation, yt He is the superiors, yt
He is to be the absolute Governor of his Help
make Woman, How empty & Vain is this notion?
When a Tear from Her we Love can banish all
our boasted Reasoning, & all our manly arguments
flatter His wsh the confession of our superiority it
is but to entangle us the more in the net, to have
us the more in yr Power, it is like Sharpers
yt {^let} the young Cully win at first, To draw him
into a Greater sum.
Notwithstanding all I’ve said, I am pleased to
confess yt I am entirely yrs & yt you are my sovereign
mistress to be subject to ye charms & sensible of
ye perfections, I esteem a greater Happiness then
to be Conqueror of the World, & am in the utmost
delight when I can tell you that I am yrs entirely & for ever
M Madan
My Duty to my Mother
[f.88]
To Mrs Madan at the Honble
Spencer Cowpers at Hertingford
=bury Park near
Hertford
Hertfordshire
Martin Madan to Judith Madan, 24 March 1726
Martin reports that he has failed in his attempts to separate the courting couple – the young man has been charmed again by his fiancée and the wedding will go ahead. The young man was persuaded by her tears and words which threw him into a ‘lethargy’. Martin muses on the power of women to have such an effect. He then concludes by assuring her that despite this is more than happy to submit to her powers and charms, and is entirely hers.
Madan Family
Eng Letter C.284 f.87
Bodleian Library, University of Oxford
1726
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Witham, Essex, [England]
Hertingfordbury Park, Hertfordshire [England]
primary author
separation
- affection
- feeling
- happy
- love (romantic)
self
marriage
primary addressee
separation
- feeling
- love (romantic)
disposition
marriage
Martin Madan to Judith Madan, 24 March 1726, 2431726: Bodleian Library, University of Oxford, Madan Family, Eng Letter C.284 f.87