561 - Mary Wilson to Rebekah Bateman, 10 December 1792

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Highbury Place
Decr 10th 1792
My Dear Mrs Bateman
Had you proposed conditions of hearing
From you more difficult than that of beginning the correspond=
dence, I should hardly have been induced to deny myself that
pleasure – You will not be surprised that no letters have
arrived lately from my Sister, when I tell you that Rebecca
has been very ill – She came here well last Monday & would
have returned on Saty; but was then under the care of our
Apothecary; & so little better that it was not thought prudent
to remove her – but the Lord seems to have lent her a little
longer; she mends as fast as possible, & I hope will soon fill
up her clothes again – My dear Sister has been in a great
deal of trouble, of which we have all partaken: for besides
that affection which Grand-parents & Uncles & Aunts generally
have, she has found out those corners of our hearts which we
did not know ourselves – you would laugh to hear us tell
her the truth; but when she is capable of understanding
it, I hope we shall be wise enough to hold our tongues;
or she had better {^be deaf} & not hear it – Indeed this little creature
is a great tempter –
What a mystery is Man! When I think of Infants,
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how weak & helpless, & how much care is necessary to preserve
life, I wonder there are any Men & Women in the world –
And to how ill purpose do most of us live! Some reward their
parents care with gross disobedience & wickedness: others, ignorant
of their own weakness, despise Christ & have no regard to his
merit or commandments; but what is still more grievous,
such as have professed subjection to him, are too often rebelling
against him – How hard it is sometimes to ‘part with all
the joys of sense, to gaze upon his throne’! to have no God besides
him – I see a beauty in Holiness which I cannot attain –
When you have an opportunity, I should be thankful
to you for the notes of that tune “Blessed Morning, whose
young dawning says &c – If I had not been very stupid, I should
have learnt it coming from Woolwich; but when you come to
London again, I will try & brush up a little that I may gain
more from your society –
So our Quondam Beau is going to be married! I am
very glad he has made a choice so likely to promote his happi=
ness – Mr John Wilson’s family are removed to their new
house, but I fear they have been too hasty: the workmen
not being out, keep them in disorder & Julia is very unwell.
We remain as usual, quite contented with our lot in the
World, & only dissatisfied with our attachment to it.
My Sister sends her Love & Respects to all her friends,
& hopes that they will write to her & trust for answers
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till she can be more disengaged from Miss Rebecca, who
is quite the Lady of quality among us, I assure you.
Let me trouble you also with m best respects to all
my friends; they are too numerous to mention; I mean
to include all those who have favoured me with their
acquaintance; yet I will say particularly Mr Bateman
& Mr & Mrs Clegg – I rejoice with you in Mr Clegg’s recovery
& I hope that many useful years will be added to his life –
Really my pen is tired: do excuse it to night, & make
yours return the compliment as soon as convenient.
Believe me to be with the greatest sincerity
& affection
Yours &c
Mary Wilson
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Mrs Bateman
Levers Row
Manchester
Highbury Place
Decr 10th 1792
My Dear Mrs Bateman
Had you proposed conditions of hearing
From you more difficult than that of beginning the correspond=
dence, I should hardly have been induced to deny myself that
pleasure – You will not be surprised that no letters have
arrived lately from my Sister, when I tell you that Rebecca
has been very ill – She came here well last Monday & would
have returned on Saty; but was then under the care of our
Apothecary; & so little better that it was not thought prudent
to remove her – but the Lord seems to have lent her a little
longer; she mends as fast as possible, & I hope will soon fill
up her clothes again – My dear Sister has been in a great
deal of trouble, of which we have all partaken: for besides
that affection which Grand-parents & Uncles & Aunts generally
have, she has found out those corners of our hearts which we
did not know ourselves – you would laugh to hear us tell
her the truth; but when she is capable of understanding
it, I hope we shall be wise enough to hold our tongues;
or she had better {^be deaf} & not hear it – Indeed this little creature
is a great tempter –
What a mystery is Man! When I think of Infants,
[new page]
how weak & helpless, & how much care is necessary to preserve
life, I wonder there are any Men & Women in the world –
And to how ill purpose do most of us live! Some reward their
parents care with gross disobedience & wickedness: others, ignorant
of their own weakness, despise Christ & have no regard to his
merit or commandments; but what is still more grievous,
such as have professed subjection to him, are too often rebelling
against him – How hard it is sometimes to ‘part with all
the joys of sense, to gaze upon his throne’! to have no God besides
him – I see a beauty in Holiness which I cannot attain –
When you have an opportunity, I should be thankful
to you for the notes of that tune “Blessed Morning, whose
young dawning says &c – If I had not been very stupid, I should
have learnt it coming from Woolwich; but when you come to
London again, I will try & brush up a little that I may gain
more from your society –
So our Quondam Beau is going to be married! I am
very glad he has made a choice so likely to promote his happi=
ness – Mr John Wilson’s family are removed to their new
house, but I fear they have been too hasty: the workmen
not being out, keep them in disorder & Julia is very unwell.
We remain as usual, quite contented with our lot in the
World, & only dissatisfied with our attachment to it.
My Sister sends her Love & Respects to all her friends,
& hopes that they will write to her & trust for answers
[new page]
till she can be more disengaged from Miss Rebecca, who
is quite the Lady of quality among us, I assure you.
Let me trouble you also with m best respects to all
my friends; they are too numerous to mention; I mean
to include all those who have favoured me with their
acquaintance; yet I will say particularly Mr Bateman
& Mr & Mrs Clegg – I rejoice with you in Mr Clegg’s recovery
& I hope that many useful years will be added to his life –
Really my pen is tired: do excuse it to night, & make
yours return the compliment as soon as convenient.
Believe me to be with the greatest sincerity
& affection
Yours &c
Mary Wilson
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Mrs Bateman
Levers Row
Manchester
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Mary Wilson to Rebekah Bateman, 10 December 1792

Containing details of Rebekah Jnr's illness and the extent to which it has upset the family, as they are all so fond of her, meditating on parenting and duty that children owe their parents, thanking her for sending a tune, she stops writing because her pen is tired.

Bateman Family Papers

OSB MSS 32 Box 2, Folder 39 (2)

Beinecke Rare Book and Manuscript Library, Yale University

1792

12

10

Decr 10 1792

Highbury Place

[London, England]

Mrs Bateman, Levers Row, Manchester

[Lancashire, England]

  • reporting
  • response

  • apologetic
  • happy
  • moral
  • positive
  • religious

  • opening
  • throughout (inconsistent)

21-40%

People
Person: Rebekah Stratten
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other

  • aesthetics
  • clothing

illness

childhood

  • ill-health
  • recovery
  • unwell

  • apothecary
  • care provided by family/kin/household

  • body - worsening
  • health - worsening

Person: Elizabeth Wilson
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my dear sister

other

  • apprehension
  • fear
  • love
  • worried